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He Beat the Shadow of His Legacy
By Leeroy Wuone
leeroywuone02@gmail.com
Jake Paul arrived in a customized chevy dually on Friday November 15,2024 at the AT & T stadium or the Death Star stadium after NFL’S Dallas cowboys owner Jerry Jones.
In the first two rounds Mike Tyson showed his prowess as he landed successive jab-overhand right towards Jake Paul’s beard with a few successive jab-overhand left’s which was impressive for a fifty eight year old boxing legend retiree. Despite this Mike Tyson who is overly half of Jake Paul’s age landed only 18 punches through the eight rounds over Jake’s 78.
Jab-overhand right is a boxing move that involves throwing an overhand right punch after throwing a jab and the motive of this tactic is to draw the opponents attention to the left side then throwing an overhand right.
Tyson wore a knee brace and when asked after the match he mentioned that he did not want to use his knee excuse cause if he did he would not have been in the ring. He was further questioned by a Netflix reporter if he had an issue with his mouth piece or glove as he constantly appeared to be biting his glove through the eight rounds. Tyson answered that he has a biting fixation and he promised the fans that that match would not be his end and he felt that he has more in him. He jokingly said that he would fight Jake Paul’s brother Logan Paul who is an American Influencer and professional wrestler.
In a post bout Interview Jake claimed that Mike Tyson’s punches did not hurt but only left him off-balance. Jake mentioned that it is easy for people to hate him by what he says but promised his fans that he has more to prove in the boxing sport. Some fan remarked that Jake just beat the shadow of Mike Tyson’s legacy while another mentioned he couldn’t knock out KO a fifty eight year old which left most bewildered some claimed that the fight was staged.
To many, Mike Tyson still remains the legend of the ring with an incredible 50 wins, out of the fifty wins forty four have been by Knock out KO and his first heavyweight title was won when he faced Trevor Berbick on November 22,1986 at the age of twenty years after he floored Berbick with his viscious three-punch combination to secure his first World Boxing Championship win WBC.
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Power Elec Kenya 2024: Addressing Challenges & Highlighting Solutions in Renewable Energy.
BY JOE AURA
The Power Elec Kenya 2024 event, held from November 13th to 15th at the Sarit Expo Centre in Nairobi, showcased Kenya’s leadership and commitment to advancing renewable energy.
The event brought together a diverse group of stakeholders, including policymakers, industry experts, and students, to discuss the future of sustainable energy in the region. The focus was on identifying the key challenges and exploring innovative solutions to ensure the growth of the renewable energy sector in Kenya.
One of the most significant challenges highlighted at the event was securing adequate financial support for renewable energy projects. Eng. Benson Mlambo Mwakina, the Director of Renewable Energy at the Ministry of Energy and Petroleum, emphasized that geothermal and hydropower developments require substantial investments. Despite the existence of public-private partnerships, he stressed the urgent need for innovative financing models to ensure continued progress in the sector.
In addition to financial constraints, technological gaps and power distribution issues were discussed extensively. Fiona Magomere, a Power Systems Control Engineer at Kenya Power & Lighting Company PLC, pointed out that Kenya’s national grid infrastructure is aging and needs modernization. She noted that integrating renewable energy sources into the grid efficiently requires updated infrastructure, better forecasting tools, and advanced grid management technologies to minimize disruptions and improve power distribution across the country.
Another barrier to renewable energy expansion discussed at the event was the policy and regulatory environment. Eng. Mwakina, along with other speakers, highlighted the complex approval processes, restrictive power purchase agreements (PPAs), and inconsistent enforcement of policies that slow down project implementation. To overcome these obstacles, streamlining regulatory frameworks and simplifying the approval process were proposed as critical steps to boost investor confidence and accelerate project execution.
In terms of solutions, a recurring theme throughout the event was the importance of partnerships and collaboration. Eng. Mwakina underscored the value of working with international stakeholders, such as India, which has one of the largest solar markets globally. Such partnerships provide opportunities for knowledge exchange, technological advancements, and financial support, all of which are essential for scaling up renewable energy projects in Kenya.
Policy reforms were also proposed as a key solution. Several speakers recommended introducing tax incentives and creating policies that simplify licensing processes to encourage both local and international investment in the renewable energy sector. These changes are seen as vital to creating an attractive environment for investors and ensuring the sustainable growth of the industry.
Education and training were also emphasized as vital solutions to the challenges facing renewable energy development. Representatives from the Clean Energy Association (CEA) highlighted the role of specialized energy labs in providing students with hands-on experience, preparing them for careers in the renewable energy sector. The Powerelec Kenya event itself served as an educational hub, offering students and young professionals the chance to interact with industry leaders, attend seminars, and learn about emerging technologies and best practices.
Universities in Kenya are playing an increasingly important role in driving renewable energy innovation through education and research. During the event, it was noted that collaborations between universities and industry players are helping to bridge the gap between theoretical knowledge and practical application. Specialized labs established by organizations like the CEA offer students the opportunity to engage in real-world projects, equipping them with the skills needed to contribute to Kenya’s renewable energy agenda.
Power Elec Kenya 2024 provided a unique platform for students to connect with experts, gain insights into industry challenges, and explore the latest technological trends. Such experiences are essential in building a skilled workforce capable of pushing Kenya towards a greener and more sustainable energy future. The event served as a reminder that addressing the challenges facing renewable energy requires not only innovation and investment but also the active participation of academia and the next generation of energy professionals.
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Daystar University Celebrate 47th Graduation Ceremony.
By Tracy Kavai
Athi River, Kenya – Friday, November 2024: Daystar University held its 47th graduation ceremony today, a grand event that saw more than 1,700 graduands from 20 nationalities receive diplomas, undergraduate, and postgraduate degrees.
The celebration, hosted at the university’s Main Campus in Athi River, showcased a vibrant blend of academic achievement and global diversity.
Under the theme “Beyond the Cap: Changing the World, “the ceremony attracted a distinguished audience, including members of the Trustee body Daystar Company, the University Council, the Senate and Management Board, government officials, diplomats, vice chancellors from other universities, corporate representatives, and church leaders. The Guest of Honour, Prof. Olive M. Mugenda, Chairperson of the Board of Directors at Kenyatta University Teaching, Referral and Research Hospital (KUTRRH), graced the occasion with an inspiring keynote address.
Prof. Mugenda challenged the graduates to craft personal visions for their futures and relentlessly pursue their passions. She emphasized the importance of building networks, seeking mentorship, and demonstrating persistence in overcoming challenges. Drawing from the Biblical story of Nehemiah, she likened the journey of success to rebuilding Jerusalem’s wall in 52 days, underscoring the power of faith and determination. She concluded by reminding the graduates that the ability to change the world lies within their grasp, urging them to remain focused on results and embrace their unique potential.
Adding to the day’s inspiration, Vice Chancellor Prof. Laban Ayiro delivered a heartfelt speech filled with wisdom and guidance. He urged the graduates to move forward with humility and purpose, reminding them that the future rewards those who press on with values instilled by Daystar. He highlighted that their time at the university had equipped them not only with academic knowledge but also with essential skills for personal and professional growth. Prof. Ayiro inspired them to dream big as they leave Daystar, embracing a vision for greater possibilities and enduring success.
The valedictorian, Miss Beatrice Wamaitha Maina, represented the Class of 2024 with an encouraging speech. She urged her fellow graduates not to give up but to approach the next chapter of their lives with open hearts and a determination to seize every opportunity that comes their way.
Chancellor Dr. Florence Muindi conferred degrees and awarded diplomas during the ceremony, applauding the graduates for their resilience and dedication. She encouraged them to embody the university’s values of integrity and excellence as they transition to their professional lives.
The ceremony ended with jubilant celebrations as graduates tossed their caps into the air, symbolizing their readiness to embark on new journeys. With a legacy of excellence behind them and a promise of a brighter future ahead, the Daystar University Class of 2024 is poised to fulfill the theme of the day, stepping confidently into the world to change it “beyond the cap.”
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Portrait by World’s First Ultra-realistic Robot Artist Shatters Auction Records.
By Joe Aura, aurajoe6@gmail.com
In an unprecedented moment that has sparked a global conversation on the intersection of technology and art, a portrait by Ai-Da, the world’s first ultra-realistic robot artist, sold for an astonishing US$1.32 million at Sotheby’s Digital Art Sale in London.
The final bid far exceeded the presale estimate of US$180,000, making the 7.5-foot-tall portrait, titled A.I. God, a landmark achievement in the evolving landscape of contemporary art.
Ai-Da is no ordinary artist. Named after Ada Lovelace, the 19th-century mathematician and pioneer of computer programming, Ai-Da represents a fusion of engineering, artificial intelligence, and creativity. Developed by Aidan Meller, Ai-Da was conceived to challenge the boundaries between human and machine-generated art and provoke discussions about the role of AI in society. “We are at the tipping point of transitioning from a human-centric world, where people make all the decisions, to a post-human world led increasingly by algorithms,” Meller explained. “Highlighting this shift with a piece like A.I. God captures the significance of this moment.”
The artwork itself is a multi-layered, impressionistic portrait of Alan Turing, the British mathematician known as the father of modern computing and a pioneer of artificial intelligence. Ai-Da’s creative process involved painting several small portraits of Turing, which were later combined and scaled up to a large canvas. Studio assistants contributed to the initial stages by adding paint and texture, before Ai-Da herself added final brushstrokes to enhance the piece’s layered, fractured appearance.
“My artwork is a tribute to Turing’s legacy,” Ai-Da remarked during an October preview. “The portrait’s fragmented and multifaceted composition reflects the complexity of our contemporary world.”
The sale has ignited a debate over what qualifies as “art” in an age where machines can create works that rival those of humans. Some experts, such as Professor Sandra Wachter from the Oxford Internet Institute, question whether machine-generated art can hold the same cultural value as human-made pieces. “I personally wouldn’t want to see us prioritizing machine stories over human ones,” Wachter said. “There’s a magic in human storytelling that risks being diminished to the push of a button.”
Despite these concerns, Ai-Da’s achievement marks a pivotal moment in the Fourth Industrial Revolution, underscoring the growing influence of artificial intelligence in creative industries. Whether AI-generated works will resonate with art enthusiasts long-term remains uncertain, but for now, A.I. God stands as a testament to the possibilities at the frontier of art and technology—a realm where even robots can wield a brush and spark awe.
In Kenya and across Africa, AI art is also making strides as artists and creators use AI tools to enhance their work, particularly in marketing and advertising campaigns. Many African creatives leverage AI to generate visual ideas and structure written content, integrating these tools as part of their process. This approach allows for a blend of human intuition with AI’s vast capabilities, fostering a dynamic, collaborative form of art. While I, like many others, use AI to prompt visual concepts and structure articles, it serves solely as a tool—amplifying human creativity without replacing its essence.
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Island of Sea Women
Island of Sea Women
BY Mercy Mwaniki
Island of Sea Women by Lisa See is set on the island of Jeju, off South Korea, during Japanese colonial rule. It tells the story of two women from different backgrounds who form a close bond, but whose choices take them through betrayal, heartbreak, strength, and forgiveness. It also immerses you in a distinctive, unforgettable culture and introduces exceptional female divers, with dramatic history shaping their lives through the 1930s, WWII, and the Korean War.
“… you are like sisters, and I expect you to take care of each other today and every day as those tied by blood would do.” My mother said, and it was as much a blessing as it was a warning. Mi-ja and Young-sook became friends after Young-sook’s mother found her stealing food in their garden. Mi-ja was not welcomed because her father had chosen to work for the Japanese and was thus labelled a traitor. After her parents died, her uncle and aunt took her in, but rather than caring for her, they mistreated her.
In that era, women were the breadwinners of the family, and fathers took care of the children. Mi-ja had no one to teach her how to dive, as that was the main way of earning money to feed the family and send the boys to school. When Young-sook’s mother took her in, she was more than grateful and did her best. The men used to fish, but when the Japanese came, they imposed higher taxes on them than on women. This is how women became the providers, not only because of lower taxes but also because they had more body fat, making them better suited to endure the cold.
In a book that portrays all forms of human cruelty, women are shown as people who had an aptitude for work, patience, strength, independence, persistence, resilience, and an understanding of suffering. A wife’s social and family duty was to bear a son who would extend her husband’s lineage. Yet, every family was grateful to have a daughter because she would always be a provider. Men spent their days taking care of the children; others drank away the money their wives earned or, at times, took another wife. The women tried to understand how they felt, “to live in a household that depends on the tail of the skirt.”
The women maintained their diving rights and would go out in the morning and return in the afternoon or late evening. They would catch abalones, octopuses, sea urchins, and sea snails, selling the best catches while feeding the rest to their families. When the Japanese invaded, they did all the wrong things:
1. Took their sons to dig caves to hide Japanese soldiers.
2. Imposed high taxes and stole from them.
3. Raped women and girls.
4. Killed anyone who resisted or even raised a question or concern.
The friendship of the two is tested throughout the story. Secrets kept, untold pain, and difficult choices led to miscommunication and misunderstanding. From going to Russia as divers to earn money even in the cold seasons, to having an arranged marriage and starting families. One married a kind, loving man who was merely a teacher but took care of her and the family. The other married a cruel man who hurt her and whose family collaborated with the Japanese. Just as Young-sook’s grandmother said, “That girl has left Hado as she arrived, the daughter of a collaborator.”
Their marriages were the last straw that broke the camel’s back. They could no longer see each other daily or make memories as they had before. The events that followed, while in the hands of the Japanese, made things worse. Their children fell in love, as they had dreamed when they were young. But things had changed, and Young-sook felt betrayed by her own daughter, thus severing ties with her. Luckily, Mi-ja’s son was the opposite of his father.
So, how do you reconcile the past and the present? What can compare to losing a mother, friends, siblings, and watching your husband and child killed before your eyes? How do you understand a traitor’s child, married to a collaborator, but who refuses to save your child and saves her own? Their entangled past became history in the present, and when reforms happened, Young-sook made it clear that nobody could understand the magnitude of what they went through.
When Mi-ja’s grandchild Clara and her mother come to deliver a message, Young-sook is conflicted. While listening to Mi-ja’s voice before she died, she remembered what Mi-ja had said when her mother died: “You are not alone. You will never be alone. You will always have me.” A promise kept till death. She understood that Mi-ja’s life was no better. Mi-ja had her own share of suffering and tried her best to protect her child and friend.
Young-sook tried to live by the words, “A good woman is a good mother.” She realized Mi-ja had tried to do the same, though with tragic results. And that is when Young-sook learns that, to understand everything is to forgive.
Island of Sea Women is a 374-page book that delves into the lives of Mi-ja and Young-sook. It introduces the reader to a totally different culture and draws them not only into the past but also into the present. This book gave me a different understanding of the colonial era, female friendships, and the unique perspective of women as breadwinners. It was a solid 8/10, probably because, apart from fully immersing me in the culture, it stirred emotions such as outrage, confusion, tears, and even excitement.
I would recommend you get yourself a copy at Textbook Centre for just 1,179 KSH, and if you need a good cry, the chapter on “Life-Giving Air” is for you.
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Hongera Septemba
Na Mariita,
Muhula wa Septemba umejawa na matukio mbalimbali ikiwemo michezo ya Falcon, burudani, wiki ya maonyesho ya mila na desturi za Kiafrika, biashara, utandawazi, mkutano wa kukuza mambo ya nje na mahusiano ya kimataifa vilevile kuweka msingi wa ujenzi wa maskani ya wanachuo.
Hatua hii muhimu ya kulishughulikia suala la maskani, imeibua hisia chanya kwani Naibu Chansela Prof. Ayiro na bodi ya chuo hiki, amefanikisha mchakato wa mradi huu kwa upesi. Kwingineko, mradi wa ujenzi wa Mama Musau- Shule ya Sheria, unazidi kunoga kwani ukitembea kwenye sehemu ya tukio la ufundi, utashibishwa na mizani ya waashi ilivyoimara. Ni wazi kwamba Imani ya wengi sasa imetiwa kwenye kiambo.
Aidha, kuna hamu kubwa ya kutaka chuo hiki kuangazia mradi ambao wengi watauita ‘MAMA YAO’ kwani kiuhalisia, bila pingamizi na kwa ushawishi mkubwa; Chuo Cha Dayastar kinafahamika nchini na ukandani kama Chuo Cha Mawasiliano. Uvumi wa sifa zake ni kama mawimbi baharini, kuenea kwa ubora huu kumetikisa mashariki na kati. Kiukweli, shule ya mawasiliano imepeperusha bendera na kuwa kama kitambulisho kamili cha Chuo Cha Daystar.
Kituo chetu cha Redio Ya Shine, mitabendi 99.9 kingali kinafanyiwa ukarabati na hayo ni maendeleo kwenye sekta ya mawasiliano. Zaidi, ingelikuwa bora mno ikiwa kituo cha televisheni, ambacho sio tu kwa kuleta programu mbalimbali zihusianazo na habari, burudani, kupeperusha ibada chuoni na matukio ya ukuaji, kingelipata sehemu mwafaka ambayo ni jengo la shule ya mawasiliano ili kufufua uwajibikaji kwa kutoa motisha na kuwapa kipaumbele wenye talanta mbalimbali.
Safari ya maendeleo italazimu kila mmoja kujibidiisha ili kudumisha sura ya Chuo na maadili kama mojawapo ya changizo katika kuimarisha ubora wa masomo na uongozi tabithi. Muhula huu wa Septemba unazidi kufunua vyungu vya mabadiliko na vilevile kupekua kurasa za maendeleo mahali mahali.
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Culture Week or Business Week?
By Janet Wambua
Culture Week at Athi River Campus is off to a bumpy start, and if you ask some students, it feels more like “Business Week.” Instead of embracing their diverse cultures, many people seem more focused on selling products. Seriously, is this Culture Week or Business Week? From the way things have kicked off, some students are starting to wonder if they missed the memo or if the theme of the week got mixed up with Business Week instead.
“Honestly, I expected cultural exhibitions or performances. Maybe some traditional food or dances? But everywhere I look, people are just selling stuff,” one student grumbled. “It’s like I walked into a flea market!”
On the first day, instead of cultural performances or vibrant displays of tradition, most of the action involved selling. Yes, you read that right, students selling everything from clothes, and perfumes to random products. The campus was filled with pop-up stalls, making it feel like a mini-business fair rather than a cultural showcase.
“I came to embrace my culture, not buy perfumes and soaps,” one baffled student said with a laugh.
The drama didn’t stop there. Day one kicked off with “Career Wear” as the dress code of the day, but let’s just say, the memo either didn’t reach most students or got lost somewhere along the way. Instead of the suits and sharp office outfits that were expected, most people just did, well, whatever they felt like. Suits? Office wear? Who needs them when you can rock whatever you had on when you rolled out of bed, right?
“I thought it was ‘Career Wear.’ Does being casual count as a career option?” joked another student, clearly amused by the casual vibes that dominated the campus.
Don’t get me wrong, some students really embraced the ‘Career Wear’ theme, and they looked nothing short of impressive. Sharp suits, polished shoes, sleek blazers, and tailored trousers, these students showed up ready to turn heads. You could spot them from a mile away, confidently walking around campus as if they were headed to a high stakes board meeting. The ladies, in their well-fitted blouses and elegant office attire, looked poised and professional, while the gentlemen, with their crisp ties and well-ironed shirts, made a strong case for dressing the part. I have to give credit where it’s due and I truly commend them for the effort. They brought a sense of sophistication and set the bar high for the rest of us!
But things took a slight turn today with “Urban/Casual Wear” as the theme. Finally, something people could relate to! After all, who doesn’t love dressing casually? Students nailed the look without much effort mostly because it’s how they dress every other day. So, while it wasn’t the most creative outfit display, it was at least on point.
“It’s funny how people nailed today’s dress code. Probably because it didn’t require much effort,” one optimistic student pointed out. “But I think it’s only the beginning. The week might surprise us!”
With the rest of Culture Week still ahead, some students remain hopeful, trusting the process. Who knows? Maybe things will take a more cultural turn soon. I am eagerly anticipating dance performances, storytelling, or maybe even some traditional food that doesn’t come with a price tag. Stay tuned, because who knows what surprises the week holds? By the end, we might witness creative pop-ups blending culture and business, proving that tradition and entrepreneurship are the perfect combination!
Until then, the campus is buzzing with a mix of disappointment, laughter, and a sprinkle of optimism.
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Carlos Sainz’s perfect weekend to victory
Written by Nafisa Najmi
Round 20 of the ongoing Formula One 2024 season was held in Mexico City at the Autodromo Hermanos Rodriguez, from the 25th-27th of October. The weekend went perfectly for Sainz as he placed on the top 3 for all the 3 free practice’s held on Friday and Saturday. The Spaniard also went ahead to qualify on pole, sixth one off his career. Max Verstappen, the current leader of the world driver’s championship, and his strongest rival for the championship, Lando Norris, qualified 2nd and 3rd, which had a lot of fans nervous, thrilled and excited for the iconic and unique turn one of this circuit.
Well turn one, did end up waking all the fans up, as Max Verstappen ended up leading the race on the first lap, but everyone’s attention was not on the front row but at the collision between Yuki Tsunoda and Alex Albon. All the drivers regrouped and were led by the safety car until the end of the 6th lap, Max Verstappen on P1, the man who started on pole behind him with Norris maintaining his position, while Alex and Yuki saw a disappointing end to what could have been a fruitful weekend for both cars, as they were both aiming to end their races in the points.
Yet the first few laps were just the start of the impeding chaos waiting for the fans, the safety car ended and the drivers got ready to attack and defend their positions. Carlos Sainz managed to get a brilliant overtake on Verstappen which meant he was back at the lead, with three plausible world championship title contenders, Verstappen, Norris and Charles Leclerc, right on his tail. Nevertheless, the most debated part of this weekend happened right after Norris and Verstappen went wheel to wheel for second place, on turn 4 Verstappen forced Norris off the track, gaining a 10 second penalty, which was just the first one. On turn 8 Verstappen was once again penalized for leaving the track and gaining an advantage.
While these two drivers went head to head, Charles Leclerc was able to overtake both of them and take 2nd place, meaning there was a strong chance that, for the second week in a row Ferrari would have both their drivers on the two top steps of the podium. That was the case for most of the race until Norris managed to close the gap between him and Leclerc. With 8 laps to go Leclerc unfortunately lost his grip on turn 17, barely saving himself from smashing into the barrier. That incident made it easier for Norris to over take him. Leclerc ended up finishing 3rd and an extra reward for fastest lap.
The chaos the weekend wasn’t just at the front row, the two Mercedes, George Russel and Lewis Hamilton, had a clean but intense battle for 4th place which Lewis Hamilton managed to secure on lap 51. The two drivers from Haas Formula 1 team also managed to bag a double points finish, as Kevin Magnussen got to 7th and Niko Hulkenberg secured 9th. Oscar Piastri who had an unfortunate qualifying managed to get from P17 to P8, helping add crucial points for McLaren’s fight for the constructors. The Alpine of Pierre Gasly also managed to get to the point after holding up a fight, reaching 10th. Max Verstappen even after a 20 second pitstop and exiting on 15th, managed to get to 6th when the race ended.
In light of the Mexican Grand Prix we do have to discuss home hero, Sergio Perez, who had a home race to forget, fans ready to support the Mexican were disappointed by the unfortunate race he had this week. Starting off by getting a 10 second penalty for a false start, not managing to get into the points, at the end he pitted to be attempt to score the fastest lap point, yet was unsuccessful as Charles Leclerc took the point at the last lap. Another unfortunate end was for Fernando Alonso who was celebrating his 400th race start, but due to a mechanical issue had to retire the car.
What a spectacle the Mexican Grand Prix was, with 3 DNF’s, intense battles and a huge chunk of points for many teams. The constructor’s championship battle got a whole lost juicier now that Ferrari (537 points) overtook Redbull (512 points) to 2nd place, McLaren leads the Constructors with 566 points. The driver’s championship also seems heated with Norris managing to take 10 points off Verstappen. With 4 race weekends to go, 2 of those include sprint race weekend, this Formula One season is a season to tune into, as the teams and drivers all fight for the top step.
Onwards to Brazil!
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Know yourself
By Stacey Mary
One of the many difficult choices we have to make in life is choosing a friend. When to choose, where to meet, and whom to choose is not known but we have to. This is where God comes in to help guide you. When God was creating the world He took six days. He could have chosen to do it all at once in just a day because he possessed the power anyway. After He created things He took a moment to observe and said it was very good. Then He continued with creation.
The same should be applied to us, look at what you are doing if it’s nice continue with it if it’s not, stop look for where you went wrong, and fix it. What we do attracts the attention of people and from that attention comes relationships. These relationships can either build us or destroy us depending on what we choose to keep and do. If you are hardworking you can’t attract attention from a lazy person but if you do, do you also become lazy or do you lift the other one to be hardworking?
One thing you should always understand is that in life we don’t always get what we want. But when you get it thank the lord. The one thing you should aim at achieving is being you. Once you become you, trust you, believe in you, and accept you then you are covered. You will trust the process, you will know your worth and what you want in life. So why should I emphasize you being you? It is because of the people in the world. Whatever you do they will always talk and judge, they will always find fault and they will always try to bring you down.
Once you understand yourself, nothing will bring you down. When you fail you will raise to try till you get it right. You will learn to filter the trash, pick what is necessary, and move on. People have a right to opinion so you can’t control what they say. It is up to you to pick the negative and go down or pick the positive and rise up. We always have a choice just try to make the right one.